I had the best day today: process.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

process.

A very short time ago (extremely short), I decided if I had nothing nice to say, I simply wouldn't say it. Not to make it sound like I am constantly bad mouthing people, but I get caught up in the little whispers and gossip as all 18 year old Brittany Black's do. So, this is good. It actually gives me a reason NOT to repeat or voice some thoughts, and I am so very glad for that. But I just wish I wouldn't have thoughts that made it so tempting.
I realize in writing this I sound like a very evil devilish girl. But everyone has this problem, its very more noticeable with the female sex. And while I am put in situations where I have to be kind, even though people are on my last nerves, I find it comforting that maybe I am not the only going through this. These past few months have presented themselves full of change, and I believe I have handled most of it very maturely. But, its the little things no

w that get me.
I know some will read this and think this simple action is not very difficult. Well, isn't it? When someone crosses you, who do you tell? There are quite a few people I tell. And I tell them because I consider them to be my closest friends, but should a "friend" really just be the person you gossip too? Because it is called gossip. (Gossip is when you repeat or say something for or about anyone besides you.)
This small simple phrase "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" poses a much harder task than I thought. Not saying can be done with a little self control, but not thinking it is where I find my fault. I am always lacking the patience that make moms, and teachers and leaders so amazing. They see who you are and just love that. Why can't I show the same courteous?
One my Favorite quotes is "Find out who you are and do it on purpose" by Dolly Parton.
Isn't that just great? Do it on purpose. I want that, but I want to be accepted too. Everyone feels this way, so why don't we just automatically do it?
I have rambled long enough.
Just thought I would write it down, sometimes it helps, I just feel more discouraged now than ever.
Could this possibly be one of those life lessons?

2 comments:

Alyssa said...: did you delete a post?
because it says you posted something 20 minutes ago but when I come here this is the only thing here.
are you turning into a blog deleter like me?
love.; October 14, 2008 at 6:59 PM
Alyssa said...: PS. I made you something today!
I will send it soon!
love.; October 14, 2008 at 7:18 PM

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The Family: A Proclamation to the World

We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.

All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.

In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshipped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize their divine destiny as heirs of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.

The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.

We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan.

Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. “Children are an heritage of the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.

The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.

We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.

We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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